Nine months now and it doesn,t seem much easier really . When mam was here no matter where I went I would get her a little treat or what ever . She liked anything with ginger in it . Really though if I thought either mam or dad would like something then I would get it . Silly things like daft fridge magnets She never knew what to do with them Didn,t really want them on her fridge but didn't want to seem ungrateful so they did end up on the fridge . So now no matter where I go I see things I would have bought for her but don't get them .