I was working in a graveyard this week believe it or not . We were removing a large headstone and accompanying granite features . The cemetry was in lancaster I went around and looked at the graves the section we were working in was apparently mainly travelling people gypsies I suppose . The graves were well kept and large some very oppulent indeed . On some of the headstones were photos of the departed .This seemed to make the graves really personnel putting faces to the names on the headstones . Three ladies came in to tend one of the graves while we were there and talk to the departed ones . I thought to myself this was so much better than a cremation for a start you have a place to go where your loved ones remains actually are . A place to focus on just seemed better to me if you see what I mean .